But anyway, I'm curious. What makes a WAS become cold and distant? In my case, my WAW dropped the divorce bomb and immediately went from being warm and pleasant to cold, distant, and even nasty. We still live in the same house, so I have had a chance to see it first-hand.
Yeah, that's frustrating, isn't it? My W did that for a while (about a week I think) and then later said she couldn't do it anymore, that I didn't deserve it. I asked her why she had done it to begin with and she said she thought it would help me realize how serious she was and move on. She said that she was afraid if she treated me nice I would "get the wrong idea". I assured her I understood she was leaving whether she treated me nice or not, and she did start treating me nice again.
