Well, I need to come up with something that supports my goal, which was the message I intended as I explained above.
"Sorry if I was unclear earlier. You're welcome back in our bedroom or you and *baby* can move back into boys room. I want to take care of my family if you're going to be home. If not, ok, I'm still thinking things through."
So what's my goal? First step is to have her and the kids come back to the house and begin sleeping there again.
At this point I could just text, "Just cleaning and moving things to make room." I suspect that will lead to more questions though.
Detach....guess I could just completely ignore the question and not even send a text.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln