You and *baby* are welcome to join me back in our bedroom, boys back in their room, or you can move things. If you'll be staying here at home with me put your and the kids dirty clothes in the blue basket so that I can get it washed for my family.
<shakes head>
Is that a decent, vague enough, response? Establish a little beta comfort without getting needy? [/quote]
No, that's a needy, pursuing, grabby response. Brother, you've really got to get on board with DB'ing. Detach, detach, detach!!!! Do you know what "detach" means? It means QUIT PURSUING HER!!!! You're just driving her farther away!
