IO, would it melt you enough to have enthusiastic sex with your husband if he took you on a romantic getaway vacation to Tahiti, with a little side trip over to Bora Bora, walked on the beach with you holding hands, took you to candlelight dinners, sightseeing, and had fun with you?
Just curious, because my wife and I did something very similar to this and we both had a lot of fun. The only disappointment for me was that it did not make her one bit interested in having sex. I mean zero, nada, nothing in that department. Oh, yeah, she even liked kissing. But no sex.
She thought you were bribing her. What about pushing buttons on her which will start to turn her on? What about base and raw attraction?
I mean are the buttons and mind space BLOCKED for the H but not others?
With the raw attraction, was there must have been something which attracted you initially. What about raw attraction within your package which gains you that type of energy from the types of the opposite sex who do like someone like you? The characteristics, the energy, the dress, etc?
I know some of you SSM guys have been stuck in the position for a long while, just trying to get some feedback going back and forth and discussions which will help all of us whether in the current relationships or in new ones.
What will blow your mind coming out of a SSM position is how easy and normal sex is with a relationship partner who likes you and doesn't have the hang up.
SSM [censored] and a co-worker was just talking about a "sexless marriage" as a real and common relationship format.
