Well, obviously all the things I thought I had been doing to keep her from going did not work. Last night she told me that she called the property management company and asked them to give the tenant 60 days to leave the house. So she will move in there, but not until April 1st.
I guess in a way it's good because she's still here. We still sleep in the same bed, ML occasionally and she still is giving me the green light to continue working to salvage the situation. I think she is pretty dead set on leaving though, because she now wants to "prove" that she can make it on her own.
She tells me that she still senses fear in most of my interactions with her, and that my confidence has not improved at all. These are deep-seated issues, and things that I need to work hard to change. I got the DR book over the weekend, and am reading it/practicing as much as possible.
