Haddrianus, it is their way of protecting themselves and carrying out their plan. It is the way they deal with what they have decided to do. They raise this wall so as not to feel anything and move forward. Remember they too face the loss of all they once knew and it is painful. So don't take it personally. They project onto you everything that is bad. They can't think or see anything good about you or the M. When you hear detach that is what they are doing. That is what the LBS must learn to do without the nasty piece. Detach eomtionally. You do this by GALing alot.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
