I don't get it. You insisted that you weren't going to pack her things up and give her an ultimatum to us, AND YET that's exactly what you just did.
You do know that she's not going to respond well right? It's still you trying to control her like a domineering H. There are other ways you could have handled that.
"Is that a decent, vague enough, response? Establish a little beta comfort without getting needy?"
