This is more of a general question and I am sure somewhere it has been answered in this discussion group. I'm still reading Michelle's books and it is probably answered there too.
But anyway, I'm curious. What makes a WAS become cold and distant? In my case, my WAW dropped the divorce bomb and immediately went from being warm and pleasant to cold, distant, and even nasty. We still live in the same house, so I have had a chance to see it first-hand.
At first I thought she just hated me, but now I think it is something deeper. This seems to be a common thread across this board and I'm just curious as to what the psychology behind this behavior is???
