W will do what she wants. Time for ME and D3 !!

[leopoldstotch]

My advice...lose the faith that your W will change her mind. If you keep that faith and it doesn't happen then what SM? Prepare to move on without her,for real. I see several possibilities for you. One, you don't follow the advice to work on you and you pressure your W back what do think will happen again? Two you do the work you need to do become a strong independent happy person who has a life. In this scenario three things will happen. Either your W will like who have become and she may come back to you. Two is you have become better but you have truly grown tired of living the way you two are living and you want to move on with your life without her in which case she will either want you back or not. The third would be you become better and realize you are better off without her.

Now which choices sound best to you? I think you know what YOU need to do. Forget about her focus on YOU and your D.