What I'm learning from H stages, disappointment.

[albamarie]

I'm starting to look back some time and compare things to today and I'm realizing I see a pattern. Whenever H has vented, really vented out all his spew, he seems to be different.

Those are the days he becomes more sociable, not so depressing and stuck sleeping or sitting. It's like he has released some anxiously! He calls it using the anger to motivate him to get off the couch!

Since my MIL came he's been active, playing guitar, computer games, and this morning he's making a vat of oatmeal for the family. He's trying to joke with me and I swear he was laughing about flirting with me over and old joke, and he's showered!

I'm not falling into any of his personality traps....I dont really have any interest in his temp need to be human, I've been done this road, it's a dead end!