Thanks for the advice guys. I have read 5LL and my W's are AOS and I think WOA. I'll take a look at Laws of Attraction in a few minutes.
Originally Posted By: PowerOfNow
I wouldn't react to any negative or any POSITIVE she does. It will drive you bat sh*t crazy. One day she at L's office next day you're out as a family. Focus on what you can control, which is you. It is tough but do it
That's my goal. You are so right, she seems to swing 180 degrees from one day to the next and I was losing my mind. I'll enjoy the good days and ignore the bad ones.
BD - I'm going to try and keep it going until the cruise because it was so fun this weekend. Kids are so excited about cruise and we still have fun as a family when the D BS isn't being thought about. I actually bought Gottman's book years ago but never read it, been sitting on shelf collecting dust. I'll take a look at that tonight.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
