Well, things are going better in some regards. W has moved back into our bedroom. Still no sex, though. I'm not going to request anymore or initiate until I see some signs she is ready. At the same time, I have physical needs that aren't being met, so I'm hitting the dating sites pretty hard. It's difficult to find FWB's, though, because it seems like there are about 10 guys for every girl on those kinds of sites.

Tomorrow night I finally get to meet her guy. It's going to be enlightening. I have some questions of you veterans. Do I tell him about her affair in 2010? She has not told him about that? How about her bi-polar and depression issues? Again, she has not mentioned any of that. I imagine we'll spend a lot of time talking about ground rules and practical issues of hiding the relationship from most of our friends and family.


Married 15 years, D5 x 2
W had EA and PA 10/2010
MC for a year improved things
Alternate lifestyle, started 01/2012 has turned into a mess