RLA, I'm gonna remind you too kiddo. You are doing great! This was the kind of stuff my W did/does so it gets me to react negatively and vice-versa. Wish my W would realize this cycle. It was explained to her over and over in MC by 2 therapists. She still denies this. It is solely up to me to try and break the cycle of this dynamic. Like you I struggle with being the one to give in all the time and resentment builds from that but gotta stop it regardless of how nasty she is.
Keep goin' the way you are goin'. Proud of you and you should be proud of yourself!
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
