Waiting anxiously for your response. I need to switch the power dynamic and put some fear of losing me into her. Right now she believes she has time to think it through, which I guess she does.

But I do have plans to ask her to leave the house when I think she is looking back and has regret and has seen some changes. The realistic timeline for that (from other sitches with OM) seems to be about 6 months.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017