B) Read every single story here and the same thing emerges: I don't love you, I haven't loved you for 1,2,6, 8 (ever!!) years, you will be better off etc etc etc.
We live theses things every day and thought the siches are all differetn, we are all dealing with WAS. So, read DR if you haven't, post often, post everything. Listen to the advice, some have been walking your path a while now and the advice they can give is invaluable.
GAL, 180 starting NOW.
I know you said last counselling-but even if she ever wants to go back, don't go to that one
I might suggest you find your own counsellor for IC. Use this time of separation to work on you. By becoming a strong, wonderful man, who would happily have another R with his wife, or be at the point where he is able to go on fully on his own and perhaps start new R's. The point is to be down the path far enough that in either case, you will be at the same place in your journey, should either scenario occur.
