MAYBE...maybe, tell her that you promise "not to introduce any OW to d3 UNLESS it's getting really serious." You hope she agrees to do the same.
But get other input b/c that's off the top of my head.
That's exactly what I did. Not to get a reaction, but b/c I saw it as the right thing to do for S2.
But...it didn't take long be for she started "fishing" for clues, and then asked me straight out if I was dating.
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I told her I was taking the time to find myself
That's pretty much along the lines of my reply as well.
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The problem is OM has confused her
If she ditches OM it doesn't mean she'll come running back. The problems you had gave room for OM.
It took me a while to see it that way, but now I really feel that's the realistic way of seeing it. Working on ourselves is more likely to help than getting rid of OM. Otherwise it will just be someone else next time around.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
