Thanks Adniva, I have just ordered the dance of Anger. LIfe is good at the moment, almost getting back to normal. I still sense a slight tension, and I just wonder if DH is hurt that I didn't trust him completely; I am sure he thinks that he did nothing wrong and I have really overreacted. In many ways I think he is right, and perhaps the secrecy was a misjudged way of protecting me. Perhaps he was just emotionally unintelligent in the way he approached this relationship. He has done all the right things, stopped contacting her, concentrating on me. I really hope that I have not done our relationship some harm that may take a while to repair. I am usually very relaxed about him having other friends. Something about this friendship made me uneasy, but perhaps just because for the first time I snooped and read this phone messages. This is really just an outpouring of my thoughts in a therapeutic but random fashion. Thank you for reading if you have stayed this long.....
Me 49y H 52y T23 y M17 y ??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker children 8-12
