Hi Greymeadow, your quote: "Even though W and I have been together for upwards of 13 years, she is still a mystery to me in many ways. There is something powerful and yet scary about that."
I met my Ex W in Aug 1975. We got engaged May 77 and married April 81.
Somewhere around the mid 80's I remember looking at her in bed one nite and this entered my head: 'Who are you? who are you? I don't know you.' Fast foward to the mid 90's, again we were in bed and I was looking at her and I had the following feeling not a thought but just a feeling/sensation. So i'll try and describe the feeling. I got a feeling in my gut and I sensed that she was a stranger to me. I said after this event "you don't talk about your feelings do you?" She took it in but she didn't reply. And at other times I asked her about her feelings but still no reply.
