First, I would make sure she is physically healthy, I don't know about you, but when I am sick is NOT the best of times to hit me with serious stuff, know what I mean?
Idk, the majority of my truth darts were snuck in when she had started a discussion, or was dumping/sharing her issues, whatever...rarely do I initiate a truth dart (but that doesn't mean I won't)...YMMV.
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about asking if she sees any room for us being H & W again at any time in the future.
This ^^^^^ could sound passive.
Maybe something like, "W, its been 1 year and X months, this limbo is not okay. I need to know where you are at so that I can plan my future".
I am sure others have something better, but you get the idea.
It is up to you, naturally. Plan, think, pray/meditate, practice. Then do it again, just to be sure...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
