From what I'm discovering it looks like H would have started cheating last Jan at the latest, maybe even earlier, with one of the OW. He is still cycling between all three and who knows there could be more. Does this change anything? I can't believe it has been going on so long. Am I just kidding myself?
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17