Wow, lots of great help! Thank you Bug, Breakdown, IO, and Tori. W was pleasant when she came home, it wasn't until she was about to go to bed did I ask if she wanted to talk. It was about a 5 min convo. She didn't go into details about what was said. She bashed him a little, compared me to him at times. I agreed with some if her complaints. Apologized for him speakinf, but not sure what he said. So she was a little venomous about it (dont make me keep the kids from him), but that is total BS. I did state understanding her hurt, and asked for her not to take it out on me. So it went ok. But to be honest, a surge of anger came over me after she left. Pretty much along the lines of, if what she did wasn't wring, why does she want it to be a secret. Typical I guess. Oh well, in the bright side of today, I scheduled an interview for Friday. Yay me!