I have a LoNG process ahead of me and I feel I can't sit in this holding pattern much longer. I need to move on with my life right now

H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14