Thanks snodderly, My L put a block on that account so neither of us can withdraw any money.

The credit card is in his name, but while the divorce is pending neither one of us is supposed to take on any new debt.

OW is a spender and shes on welfare so he has to have funds available for her. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse knowing the OW and her own level of insanity?

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending