Hey there - Congrats on the weight loss! The Bomb Drop Diet is the most effective one I know.
Sorry about your H, but at least now you have the peace of mind that you were willing to give it a try, and he couldn't even manage a month of good behavior. You ARE worth so much more than this. (And strippers? Omg, don't even get me started on how lame a father he is for that.)
Good for you getting your financial ducks into a row. Get out and do things for you, too - take advantage of that built-in babysitter while he's still there.
I know it all stinks, but trust me that life may become WAAAAYYYY better for you once you have moved on. Trust that there is a bright future for you.
