From the moment you started DBing, you became a very quick learner. You followed the principles to a T and I have always admired your ability to lovingly detach (which so many of us struggle with).
You are a success story (and you know it) regardless of what happens with your W, because you became a better man and a H only a fool would leave. Your DBing efforts paid off and you should be proud of yourself.
You have also been such a source of inspiration and have dedicated so much of your time and energy to help others. MANY others (if not, just look at your number of posts in just a few months... LOL)
Again, congrats and I look forward to seeing how your sitch will continue developing with your W. Best to you both.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D