Listen yes, maybe validate that it's hurtful when other people say things but that happens in these situations. Tell her you will talk to your father, if that's your plan.
But you can't control your father and people will make their own judgments and say what they will say.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
