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I know how you feel brother. My W thinks D3 will be fine too because she doesn't understand yet.

I have already noticed extreme separation anxiety. As soon as W is leaving instinctively D3 knows it will be a day or two before she sees her again.

My W was from a broken home also whereas I am not. My parents are still together 42 years now. But my W was 13 and it affected her. So her reasoning is it's better now when D3 is a baby then trying our marriage a few more years then divorcing when she is older.

It is a cycle man. My W always said she would never leave her husband for an affair partner like her mom did. And always had a little lost respect for her mother for it. The only lesson kids get from a divorce is that it's ok to quit even when people tell you things can be done.

Now we have to teach our daughters that quitting on your marriage without trying everything..and I mean everything possible like MC, weekend retreats, ethel whole nine. And you have to teach D3 that without suggesting that's what her mommy did or you damage their relationship forever.

I support divorce for wife beaters, abusers, drug addict spouses, etc.. But a marriage that is fairly normal but needs some tools.to help communication is not on my list of marriages to throw away.

Funny what you learn in these sitches.isn't it? Women break up more homes than men. I always thought it would be the other way around.

Hold on brother. There is still hope.