Just found this out.

3 years ago we had a credit card with a $15,000 limit, to which I finally got completly paid off...hate being in debt.

2 days ago I got an email from this company saying "thankyou for re-opening your account, please fill out the customer service survey". I'm sure he didn't know that they have my email on file.

He has also taken $20,000 out of 2 accounts in december one of which was in both our names, my lawyer threatened him with legal action and made him put the $10,000 he took from our joint account back.

He seems to be digging himself this hugh hole and I imagine its gonna get so deep that he can't see daylight.

He was always so proud to be able to say he was debt-free, no credit cards, car payments etc... Now its like he has to have this persona of being a rich guy...our money will be gone before he knows it.


M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending