hrm, I can understand how your friend feels, but she's got to trust you. You wouldn't invite her over if your h was going to go off the rails. You might need to suggest meeting her for coffee or something just to pave the way for her to feel more comfortable about coming over.
The cupcakes sound delicious. Yum!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
