W will do what she wants. Time for ME and D3 !!

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Brit. Thank you for the insight. Yes I had read your thread because it sounded similar to my sitch. I know I could be affecting the respect factor between us but I have read up on what many other men did to win back their wives and it seems to follow a certain formula.

Make the necessary changes.

Let her see the changes and take note of them.

Apply pressure for her to carry out what she said she would. Ie get a job and move out.

Pull back on the friendship and let her try to get all her needs met by OM. Right now he provides some and I provide the rest. When he has to provide all if them it will most likely not work out because their relationship is not built on sustainable love.

I am going to try hard to focus on me and my daughter because that is all I can do at this point. Work hard to look good and smell good etc..

In all fairness we are all here to save our marriages and that is the main goal. I try not to forget that.

Thank you for taking time to post here. Please check back with me from time to time to offer tips from a woman's perspective.