Sexless marriage. H Left. Now retrouvaille in 3wks

[AM2012]

So happy to hear this news another stander. Thank you flowers. It's inspiring to hear and good luck !!

I just got back from yoga and I had I think a revelation. I am by no means a therapist, but this weekend H told me that in high school he was rejected by every Girl. He never had a girl friend and would cry himself to sleep. This made me feel so sad to hear. at yoga today I wondered if this terrible rejection he felt in high school is contributing to the rejection he has felt from me and that is why he is having such a difficult time getting through some of this and why the rejection he feels is running so deep. How could someone that loves you reject you?

I also realized at yoga today that I am not to blame for all this. I have taken the blame for everything even this weekend in hopes he would come back. This blame is eating alive and it needs to stop.
H goes to see a therapist in wednesday. Hopefully he got something out of the weekend he can discuss with him.