IO, would it melt you enough to have enthusiastic sex with your husband if he took you on a romantic getaway vacation to Tahiti, with a little side trip over to Bora Bora, walked on the beach with you holding hands, took you to candlelight dinners, sightseeing, and had fun with you?
Just curious, because my wife and I did something very similar to this and we both had a lot of fun. The only disappointment for me was that it did not make her one bit interested in having sex. I mean zero, nada, nothing in that department. Oh, yeah, she even liked kissing. But no sex.