I guess you can be a true believer in the DBing technique after your story! I am so happy that your W is willing to give your M a try. You deserve it. All of us do, but not all us get that opportunity.
I wish you the best as I know there's still a lot of work for you to do, but you are headed in the right direction!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.