Quote:
we got married young and never really dated much so we did not have a chance to grow through failed relationships. We did not get to figure out what we wanted in a relationship and how to ask for it. Basically we did not grow up


Me too ... I have known my H since the age of 12 but we were not "together" until age 28. I had one serious R before him and it was just as dysfunctional...

Bug is right - the hardest part is looking in the mirror and figuring out what needs to change, and having the strength to do it.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page