Yes I knew about the affair,I did not know about the daughter.I knew she had a daughter and always wondered but thought he would tell me if she was his,he has had several seriious surgeries and thought if he had secrets he would tell me in case he didn't survive. He said he wants no part of the mothers life and doesn't seem to really like her. At times I feel like she is stalking me as she very often walks by my place or drives by and is way out of her area.I have a very distinctive vehicle and it seems like she often comes into a place where I am. I was sitting in a restaurant one day and saw her drive by very slowly looking in. I'm not paranoid believe me!