Intact, I am sorry to here that. Don't give up jus yet. Your W may be confused and not know what she wants right now.
I really recommend you start a new thread in the New Commers section where more people will chime in and help you through this.
See over there!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017