If i had some money, I'd say that going to court was the way to go. His bullying is making me physically ill.
But I just don't have enough money to pay the debts, mortgage, school fees, etc., let alone lawyers' fees.
I was hoping that the mediator would explain to stbx the need to provide documentation of assets and liabilities. Hoping that SOMEONE other than me would tell him the obvious. But it looks like he won't go to mediation unless I agree to settle without documentation.
In the meantime, MIL and FIL came over this evening, bringing pizza and cake for D17's birthday.
They suggested playing Monopoly with us and we had a fun time. A good old- fashioned family night.
Stbx rang twice today but I didn't answer. Basically I was feeling too ill and anxious to take his calls. I thought that he would just be strong-arming me. He's probably emailed again by now but I know better than to look at this time of the night - it always keeps me awake fretting.
