Tough yes, but opportunity knocks. Wish I were in yours or even your H's shoes right now. I am so happy for you. Take this opportunity and run with it. Have fun with it rather than think of it as a daunting task. Enjoy each other to the fullest. Remember too, disagreements will happen, they do in the best of marriages just don't believe that it is the end or a huge setback. It is how you disagree and resolve it. Good section in DR on this too.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.