Congrats RFL! I hope it works out for you guys.

I'am at a worse place right now. W isn't interested in R at all. She is "totally done" and wants me to move out and see mediator ASAP, or she will go legal she said. I told her I'm not intimidated by her threat of D anymore.

Still not sure if I want to be the one to move out or not.

She said that in order for her to even think of R, we would have to be D and years would have to go by for her to release her anger and resentment! This makes me feel pretty hopeless. I don't think I could wait that long. I would have to go on with my life, so that would probably be too late...


Me:46 W:40
M:10 T:17
D:9 S:6
BD:12/11
ILYBINILWY:8/12
Served 2/13
I moved out 2/13
I moved back 6/13
W moved out 9/13