I think sometimes I fear that I will end up like her, that I'll never be able to see anyone else as equal to or better than my XH in terms of a relationship. I think this is why I am not dating anyone. I don't think it would be fair to make someone compete with a ghost, so to speak.
idk, as long as you are upfront, let the other person decide if they want to "compete", or not. Just a thought.
And thank you for this thread, much to ponder...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
