Mirage, thank you for posting about happy endings. I wish there was more of that to read about!
Antonia, I just posted on Tad's thread.
I really feel that we mourn the loss of what we had and who these people were at one time. Especially if the good times surely out weighed the bad.
My children even mourn the good times as a family that we had with their father when it was all 4 of us. We consistently remember funny things.
I've come to grips and acceptance of some things. One, I will always love my XH for the rest of my life. I just will. But I accept that right now he is no longer the person that I would be able to have a relationship with NOW.
Will he ever see the light? Will he change with he help of God?
I have no way of knowing. I hope so, but just don't know. Maybe Im not supposed to know. So I'm letting go, and letting God deal with him, because seriously only God can help him now.
