He has not decided if he will attended. Before the last session today he decided that he would move out and not continue with the program that day. I left and asked one of the speakers that I felt we had a connection with to speak with him. He came back to the last session but was PO. I decided not to ask him if he will attend the final session as I don't want to add any more fuel to fire. I will be going even if I go alone.
Friday night was fine but when the topic if intimacy came up on Saturday is when it all broke loose. He was livid that I have deprived him of a basic need for so many years. He still feels like the victim and sees that he's been the perfect husband. Even though I have described and explained why I did what I did, he can't get over it.
The stories we heard this weekend were much worse than ours, however he feels we had the worst. According to him he is the only one who has been deprived of intimacy for this long. The scares are too deep that they can't be healed however the presenters ths weekend all healed even one had been divorced.
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14
