AM, do you think it may have been overwhelming for him, to take the kind of look at himself and your relationship that he had to do this weekend? I'm wondering if his responses are automatic deflections because it was just a lot to take in...and maybe he isn't ready to accept some things about himself?

Not sure, btw, I haven't been to Retrov, just researched and read what folks here wrote. So no expert by any means.

Take what you learned and be thankful you had that opportunity. I know it's not the outcome you were hoping for right now. But that doesn't mean it won't get there.

Hugs to you.