Unpacking my bags

[needgrace]

thank you val and busting.

before i saw your post val, i had texted her the plate number and i did just to end it and find some peace again, like you mentioned busting.. i did not say anything else and am hoping my actions speak volumes, but i will address the space issue further if she asks more questions.

i thought her late night text when i did not answer her request in a day was out of line as well as her not telling me why she needed it.. but i do not want to engage right now... it is better for me if i don't.

like you val, i have always taken care of everything financial/paperwork and have been frustrated by her lack of effort to figure things out herself throughout this whole process. she will go the easiest route (asking me.)

i have never been good at setting boundaries and am trying to figure out where/how to right now and it is hard bc there are so many emotions involved. i want to set a boundary but don't want to show her how much i still feel.

thanks for the support, sweet friends.