No, he always played the stupid husband role....forgetting this or asking what kind of coffee etc. Surely it is a role I helped put him in, but yeah, once in a while, look what I did for you is the 2x4 in the marriage, when it gets complacent and expectations are driven by past behaviour. All the time would be complacent as well, but to have H bring a little known flower home that I love, because he knows I hate roses and tell me he had to go to five florists....that would work!!
