Interest comments about the haircut. I also used to cut my H's haircut. Starting at the end of April of last yr, when he said he wanted a D, he just let it grow until it looked all shaggy. Then he eventually went to the mall. After that he let it grow again, and when I saw him on New year's Eve, he said the woman from work who has the crush on him (and who wrote that "love" letter I found) had given him a haircut. I said, "she must've been thrilled." He said no, that it had been a friendly thing. I think he said it to test if I'd get upset. I'm glad I don't have to play these games anymore.

GTO, try going to a meetup. They have so many in CT! They have walking meetups, hiking, dining, etc. Think of what you like to do and search for the related meetups.