Thanks S. I'm breathing, but more importantly, not confronting him again to try and make him understand what he did, which is a 180 for me.
I guess I shouldn't have said anything in the car either. Why bother? He has no idea, not a clue, doesn't 'get it' about how he makes me look like a fool in front of others. I think I will just see our friends alone. Most are friends I made, so it'll be easy. This friend is "his" which is why I went. But, I can always do coffee with him (and his wife, when she comes). I do not talk about my M to him, so it's not as if he has to choose between H and I.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim