Thanks so much for your input, I need to hear it! Yes this isn't the first time that I've suggested things to help him with the kids, he takes the advice but can't even utter a response of " thanks, that was a good idea" Or " I never thought of that".
Now not being able to freaking communicate like a normal person in a situation regarding our own children makes it very clear there is something SERIOUSLY WRONG HERE. That's a mind game! Can't even admit he took the advice of the mother that gave birth to his very own children??? Yet when he's offered suggestions that were good ideas, I've praised him for it and said " good idea!". That's blatant narcissitic mind control, devalue and degradation as far as Im concerned.
And yes REally Snodderly, if he's un- usually phoning home, it makes me very curious as to why he just drops out of the sky like that! Only to retreat back to the heavens the minute he hears back from me. So yes, Im very curious as to where he is when these things happen. Im really beginning to think he just needs to know Im still out there at times. No interest o anything more except I still exist. WEIRD.
I have to admit this running hot and cold is something he did when he was home anyway. It was the strangest thing I ever saw. Just as friendly and happy for one day, or two, then in a functional coma the next. It's like his ability to communicate was severely damaged after he got consumed with World of Warcraft then the head injury didn't make matters better. The disassociation this man is capable of is quite remarkable from an objective point of view.
The desire to probe him no longer overtakes me as it did directly after BD, but it does stir my curiousity from time to time. Oh well... whatever ET in MLC. Whatever floats your boat Buddy!
On a happier note D10 and I are having mother daughter time together. D13 had a slumber party last night and will be home sometime today. WE went to dinner and shopping last night. My girls are so different solo than together in the house. D10 made me warmed up Chinese for breakfast, and I made her hot chocolate.
I also found someone that sparked my interest on Plenty of Fish, so I sent him an email. We will see what happens.
