Subguy I can only say yes to what both Labug and Afa have said. It is tough, but it will come to you and when it does it will feel right for you.

Great idea about engaging with the neughbor. Really like that idea a lot.

Hope you are well today

((()))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home