no coffee yet...
My story's not yours = just because this is how my trajectory went from a point similar to yours doesn't mean yours will.

Just take good care of your feelings because they're still there even if you're good at ignoring them.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.